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It's a bit of an awkward one! My husband and I have really mismatched libidos, he's only keen to get intimate once or twice a month and I'm really struggling to cope.
I've tried to bring it up over the past few years but he gets angry and walks off or avoids it, if I try initiate anything he will push me away or turn away from me.
He doesnt like PDA's so we make absolutely no physical contact at any other time other than when he's keen to have sex.
I'm lost as to how to communicate my needs to him without making him angry.
I really need help I'm finding myself getting attracted to other men. I'm really craving some love and attention.
My partner wants me to buy a house with him.
We have been together about three years and plan on getting married, but we aren't engaged and I'm not sure when that'll happen.
He says we can just use it as a rental and then move in together when we get married cause we both have the money now and it'll just cost more later on.
I am just worried about going into something like this when we aren't kinda 'locked in' yet, if you know what I mean, I just don't feel it's a wise move?
How do I tell him this without it seeming like I plan on leaving him or don't think the relationship will last? Cause that is not how I feel.