Let go and let God

Do we get upset if we can't control a situation? Or moody and irritated if we don't get what we want? Do we react if our mistakes are pointed out? Do we exaggerate to gain attention or sympathy? Do we get upset when someone disagrees with us or challenges us? Are we quick to try and fix something we think is wrong in someone? Do we 'give orders' to those we interact with, rather than using the simple courtesies of 'please' and 'thank you'?

If our answer to these questions is yes, then today God's saying to us: don't be so controlling! The Bible says, 'Be devoted to each other like a loving family. Excel in showing respect for each other' (Romans 12:10 GWT). This means stopping and considering how our behaviour may be affecting others, and in many cases especially our loved ones. Perhaps we're thinking, 'But I just have a strong personality.' This doesn't let us off the hook: 'A servant of the Lord must...be gentle to all' (2 Timothy 2:24 NKJV).



So what now? If you're realising you have some controlling tendencies (we all do to a point), ask the Holy Spirit to help you change your ways! If you control because you fear anger and rejection, draw a line in the sand. Seek help from a trusted friend, church leader or healthcare professional. Give your life to God and refuse to be controlling or controlled. Let go and let God.





— SCRIPTURE —

'Excel in showing respect for each other.' Romans 12:10 GWT
— SOULFOOD —

Exo 20:8-11, Exo 16:1-31, Mark 3:1-6 , Luke 13:10-17, Luke 13:10-17