Reconcile (2)

Almost everyone has someone they need to make amends with, in some way: a friend, a work colleague or a family member. The longer it's left alone, the more it swells up into something worse than it should be.

Good news: Jesus has a simple, useful approach to setting us free from a grudge. Uncomfortable news first: to be close to God, we need to recognise the link between knowing him and forgiving others. Let's check out this challenging verse: 'Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift' (Matthew 5:23-24 NIV).

What does this mean? Worshipping, drawing near to God and being filled to go out and serve him - there's something that needs to happen before that: reconciliation. It's a humbling experience to make the first move, even if we haven't caused the problem. Check out what Ephesians 4:26-27 NIV: 'In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.' Today is the best time to make the move and set things straight. That's the way to freedom with others, ourselves and with God.



So what now? If you need to reconcile with someone, start today. Thank God that he's at work in the situation, softening hearts before you meet.





— SCRIPTURE —

'Leave your gift there at the altar. Go and make peace.' Matthew 5:24 NCV
— SOULFOOD —

1 John 3:11-5:21, Mark 8:14-26, Ps 119:129-136, Pro 22:8-10